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| sopheak |
25 years old
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10.06.2010 |
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2009: សួស្តីលោកDr.Love
នាងខ្ញុំមានសំណួរមួយចំនួនចង់សួរទៅលោក។ នាងខ្ញុំជាស្ត្រីរៀបការរួចហើយ។ ប្តីរបស់នាងខ្ញុំតែសូមនាងខ្ញុំរួមភេទតាមរន្ធគូទជារឿយៗ តែនាងខ្ញុំតែងបដិសេដ្ឋជាមួយគាត់ជានិច្ច ព្រោះនាងខ្ញុំនៅមានមន្ទិល អំពីការរួមភេទតាមរន្ធគូទថាតើវាមានផ្តល់ផលអាក្រកដែរឬអត់។ នាងខ្ញុំសូមសួរថា៖
១- តើការរួមភេទតាមរន្ធគូទប៉ះពាល់ទៅដល់សុខភាពដែរឬទេ?
២- តើការរួមភេទតាមរន្ធគូទអាចមានការឈឺចាប់ដូចពេលដែលស្ត្រីរួមភេទលើកទីមួយឬទេ?
៣- តើវាអាចមានលាមកចេញមកដែរឬទេនៅពេលដែលយើងរួមភេទតាមរន្ធគូថ? ហើយតើយើងគួរដោះស្រាយតាមវិធីណា?
រាល់សម្តីដែលនាងខ្ញុំបានរៀបរាប់ខាងលើគួរពុំគួរសូមលោកអភ័យទោសតាមការគួរ
សូមអរគុណ!
Answer: សួរស្តីប្អូន!
ការរួមភេទតាមទ្វាធំ ឬរន្ធគូទ វាជារឿងមួយពិបាកសំរាប់ស្ត្រីមានបំណងសាកល្បងលើកទី១។ មានមូលហេតុសំខាន់ពីរដែលស្ត្រីមួយចំនួនមិនចង់រួមភេទតាមទ្វាធំ គឺ ១- ខ្លាចការឈឺចាប់ ២- ខ្មាស់ដៃគូរួមភេទ ប្រសិនបើដៃគូរប្រទះឃើញភាពកក្វក់ដែលមាននៅក្នុងទ្វាធំរបស់ខ្លួន។ តែទោះជាយ៉ាងណាក៏ដោយក៏មានស្ត្រីមួយចំនួនជ្រើសរើសយកការរួមភេទតាមទ្វាធំដែរតែនោះមិនមែនគាត់ចូលចិត្តនោះទេ គឺដោយសារតែគាត់ចង់ផ្គាប់ចិត្តដៃគូររបស់គាត់តែប៉ុណ្ណោះ។
១ & ២-ទ្វាធំមិនមែនទ្វាដែលធម្មជាតិបង្កើតមកសំរាប់ការរួមភេទនោះទេ។ វាជាបំពង់សំរាប់អោយខ្លួនប្រាណអ្នកបញ្ចេញចោលនូវការសំណល់នៃអាហារ បន្ទាប់ពីសរីរាង្គបានស្រូបយកសារធាតុចិញ្ចឹមអស់រួចរាល់ហើយនោះ។ ការរួមភេទតាមទ្វាធំ គឺពិតជាអាចប៉ះពាល់ដល់សុខភាពរបស់អ្នក ប្រសិនបើអ្នកខ្វះការយកចិត្តទុកដាក់នឹងមិនយល់ដឹងពីរបៀបរួមភេទ។ អ្នកគួរដឹងថា ទ្វាធំមិនអាចរីករួមបានធំដូចទ្វាមាសឡើយ ហើយវាក៏មិនមានទឹករំអិលជួយផ្សើមដើម្បីបន្ថយការកកិតនៅពេលដែលអ្នករួមភេទដែរ ម្យ៉ាងវិញទៀត ភ្នាសដែលនៅខាងក្នុងទា្វលាមកក៏មានសភាពស្តើងដែលងាយស្រួលដាច់រលាត់ ដែលជាឪកាសនៃមេរោគផ្សេងៗជ្រៀតចូលបាន។ ដូចនេះ Dr. Love អាចនិយាយបានថា ការរួមភេទតាមទ្វាធំគឺអាចប៉ះពាល់ដល់សុខភាពរបស់អ្នក។
៣- ការរួមភេទតាមទ្វាធំ គឺពិតជាអាចមានកាក់សំណល់កខ្វក់នៅលាយឡំនិងប្រដាប់ភេទបុរស តែវាមិនរំខានដល់ការរួមភេទរបស់អ្នកឡើយ លើកលែងតែករណីដែលអ្នកមានជំងឺរាគរួសប៉ុណ្ណោះ។
ដើម្បីកុំអោយសភាពនេះកើតមានឡើង អ្នកត្រូវព្យាបាលជំងឺរាគរួសអោយបានជាសះស្បើយសិន និងត្រូវបន្ទារបង់អោយបានរួចរាល់ ព្រមទាំងអនាម័យទ្វាធំអោយបានស្អាតមុននឹងចាប់ផ្តើមរួមភេទ។
Dr. Love |
| Rose |
21 years old
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04.06.2010 |
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2006: According to the topic in the website "Love on the Internet" (http://healthandlove.org/lovenfrienship/love_via_internet.php), you have mentioned that DO NOT GIVE OUT OUR REAL INFO TO SOMEONE WHOM WE HAVE NEVER KNOWN (people whom we've known on net). Does it push people to lie people?
Another question to the Dr. Love, Do you believe that True Love exists on the internet? As I have read in the topic you have posted and give out the question "ើអ្នកជឿលើស្នេ ាអ៊ិនធើណែតដែររឺទេ?
I haven't seen you give out any idea with this. Just advice. As you're a Dr. Love, I would like to read your idea on those 3 questions. Thanks and best regards, Rose
Answer: Hello Rose,
It does not mean to encourage or force people to tell lie. Its a way of keeping people safe from the forms of Abuse. Please remember that: When you are online, you are connecting to the world, the world with good people and bad people. Good people will not harm you. But how about bad people, how could you recognize them? It is not an easy way to do so. Study show that: the Internet has proven a useful tool for pedophiles and sexual predators as they distribute child pornography, engage in sexually explicit conversations with children, and seek victims in chat rooms to lead to sexual assault, rape, and child molestation.
Im sorry that Im enabling to answer to other question as they are unclear or unreadable. If you curious more. Please specify your questions again. Thanks
Dr. Love
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| Tha |
m years old
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12.05.2010 |
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1998: Dear Dr. Love, I would like to ask your thought about maariage a girl who already used to have boyfriend before and used to have sex with her boy friend for alomost 4 years. She is realy and truely love me and I want to marry her. She is now 21 and I am 34. My questions are as follow: 1- What about the public perception to marry the girl as mentioned above? 2- What about other men thought about me if they knew that? 3- What about my family ? 4- More........ Please advice me and I am waiting to hear back from you.
Answer: Dear
Men has experience a lot about sexual relationship with women before their marriage, but when he is ready to settle down, he want to marry with a virgin. This is not such good way of choice. Lost virginity has nothing to do with true love, caring and honesty. It just gives an idea of men seeing a woman in very negative ways in order to devalue, and degrade her to level of shame. And if you love her, never think about this thing, its not important to lead your life.
Some people have negative impact when they know this, and your family might do too. But please do not worry. No one knows unless you and your girlfriend reveal it.
Remember that: this crack could occur in your mind sometime. But if you love her, you have to forget all her past, buried them, and never get it back. Otherwise, your love will be worse because of this. |
| sok.sophea |
29 years old
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26.01.2010 |
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1874: Hello!
I want to ask u about health and love. why I can't live with my husband? u can help me why? why? I'm no have baby.I'm married 6 years ago. I want have a baby. I wish goodluck goodhealth and goodhappyness. From Me sok sophea
Answer: Hi Sophea,
I would like to help you with your question, however I do not have enough information from you about the situation. Before I can respond, I will need you to tell me more about your problem.
Please tell me more details and then we can continue our conversation.
From Dr. Love.
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| Chettraboyz |
21 years old
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25.01.2010 |
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1870: I used to love someone when I was a student. But we've broken up for about 2 years and she got married two month ago. I feel not love her anymore.
Nowadays when I try to love another girl, I feel like it is not a love feeling. It seems like I can not love other girl. I don't know what this feeling is. I want to change it as soon as possible I can. Could you show me how to open my stupid heart to love other girl? I don't want to live with this stupid feeling anymore. I need a real love one.
It is possible to heal this feeling in order to find new love?
Please help me to run away from that stupid stupid stupid stupid heart and crazy feeling.
Could you show me the reasons and how I can run away from that.
Thank you ,
Answer: Answer:
Dear Chattra,
Please dont worry too much about this. Your feeling is alright. It doesnt mean that you have strange feeling beside other people. Your feeling is not stupid. You might find that many people feel this way after they have broken up.
If you dont have a feeling of love for someone, perhaps the girl you try to love might not meet your expectation or criteria. One more thing, you said you try to love her but its not a love feeling. Its true, since the love could not be forced.
So please be patient, the right girl for you will come along.
Dr. Love
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